How to Tell My Guitar Teacher I Don't Want Lessons Anymore?

Well here’s a question I just had to answering straight away:

Question: Hey.
I’ve had a few different guitar teachers and they’ve all been trying to teach me how to play guitar like a pro but all I want is to learn how to play some of my favorite songs.
Then my friends told me there’s this guitar teacher that teaches cool rock & pop songs so I gave him a call. He turned out to be a teacher like all the others. We had guitar lessons for the whole school year but I’m sick and tired of it. I want my parents to tell him I don’t want lessons anymore but they said I have to do it.
I know he’s going to give me a call on September 1st and I want to prepare what I’m going to say.
Any ideas?
Thanks so so much xxxx
Answer: First of all tell him you thank him for taking his time out to teach you. Make up an excuse such as saying: "I’ve learned what I wanted to learn", "I’m really busy with other things" or "I want to play another instrument and don’t want to play guitar anymore". I doubt that he will be mad at you for not wanting him to teach you anymore, he was lucky to be payed for it.

Good Luck :)

How to Tell My Guitar Teacher I Don't Want to Learn a Certain Song?

Another learn guitar question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:

Question: So, my guitar teacher wants to teach me a song that my Nana loved. She passed away over a year ago and when he started playing it in my lesson today, I almost cried. I don’t want to just say, "I don’t want to learn that song." And I don’t want to explain why I don’t want to learn the song, cuz I’m kinda embarrassed by it, so yeah… Is there any way, I can tell him without really telling him?
Answer: "Please, I’d rather not learn to play the song. I hold intense emotions with it for personal reasons. Could I learn something different?"

$70/hr for Guitar Lessons?

This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:

Question: is this a reasonable price?

this guitar teacher is the guitarist for my once favorite band (not anymore, although I still listen/enjoy their music); the advantage is he could teach me all my favorite songs from his band. His band isn’t very famous, but I would say well recognized (they have a little more than 1/2 million fans on facebook).
he has a degree from berklee music school (?)
has been teaching for ~5years

i am just learning for fun. with not ‘goal’ to reach, except just to be better than i am right now (which is not good!)
and i have to drive ~1hr to his place.

what do you guys think?

Answer: I’d find someone closer who has equal experience and probably more knowledge and would only charge $40-$50/hr.
Most likely, a good instructor will be able to tell you how to play any song you want to know how to play.

Should I Learns Guitar Chords First Be for Doing Anything Else?

What’s this week’s question? Let’s dive straight in…

Question: Ok so I had my first guitar lessons this week and for some reason my teacher wants me to learn stairway to heaven(which is hard). When we met he asked my if i could play anything, so i played a couple of riffs i learned on my own, and now he wants me to learn stairway to heaven, while my friend has another teacher and hes learning the basics like minor and major chords and all that, while im stuck on an impossible song. So should i tell my guitar teacher that i want to learn the chords first and then try to learn easier song, or rush like a maniac trying to learn stairway to heaven.
Answer: Truth is, there are some really crappy teachers out there, I’ve had some of them myself. It’s your money, if he is not teaching you the way you feel comfortable with then quit and find another teacher. I can’t even imagine giving a new student something like that.

If a Guitar Teacher Has 25+ Yrs of Teaching Exp, Could It Mean His Lessons Are Not Boring or Discouraging?

We’ve had a reader question come in on the subject of guitar lessons. Let’s take a look:

Question: he is gonna teach me standard notation and fingerpicking and style,
is it likely i wont get discouraged?
Answer: Well 25 years of experience doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a great teacher, and even if he is, he’s not necessarily the right teacher for you.

Music can be communicated and explained in a wide variety of ways. Having a teacher that explains things in a way that makes sense to you is important. Teachers will often show you examples of specific concepts in action in real songs, and it’s helpful if they find them in songs you’re familiar with.

It’s important that you enjoy your time with your teacher. If things don’t seem to be clicking with one teacher, try another one. Don’t just keep jumping around though. Teachers can be much more effective when they are familiar with your playing and abilities.

What Do I Tell My Rock Lesson Guitar Teacher to Prepare Me for 1 Yr to Take Fingerstyle Guitar?

Keep the guitar lessons questions coming! I liked this one:

Question: basically my teacher doesn’t teach fingerstyle, so what do I tell him to prepare me to switch to fingerstyle guitar with another teacher in about 12 months?
Answer: He’s the teacher. You don’t "tell" him anything. Explain to him that you are really interested in fingerstyle and would like the best foundation that he can give you so that when it does come time for you to learn fingerstyle that you are set up for success. Just like you like to hear positive things, so do teachers. So let him help you, listen and do what he says, and if/when you are ready to move on, you can. You might also find that you need more than 1 year or that two teachers at the same time benefit you. Don’t rule anything out.

Should I Go into My Guitar Lesson B@ked?

This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:

Question: Or is it a bad idea? I just started taking lessons about a month and a half ago so I’m a beginner. Id be smoking at about 1:30 because I can leave early Wednesday because if you have last period study juniors and seniors can leave early.

So yea I’d smoke at about 1:30 and my guitar lesson is at 5:30. So a good 4 hours to cool down. And anyway I can function pretty well while I’m h!gh. What do you think? Have you ever done it or gone into a place like this while h!gh? I think my guitar teacher smokes too because his eyes were red the past couple weeks lol.

Answer: Go for it.

For Guitar, Is It True That Only Very Few Quit After Taking Private Lessons for 1 Year?

Well here’s a question I just had to answering straight away:

Question: I’m on my 7th month with my 61 year old guitar teacher.

Am I less likely to quit as time goes on or is it the opposite?

Answer: Hello there,

I do not have any statistical data, but my own observation is that people who take lessons for more than a month or two are not likely to quit. The biggest number of folks who quit are those who try to learn on their own. Among those who take lessons, after you have been at it for a couple months you know enough about playing that you have all ready decided whether playing the guitar is for you or not.

Of course as life goes own there are other reasons people quit. They get older and stop playing in the bands they played in while in school. Some teens quit when they go to college because they acquire new interests and friends there. Some folks quit after they get married and have children. Working a job and taking care of their house tends to eat up all their spare time.

However, some folks never quit, at least completely. They may have periods of time when they do not play and then start up again years later.

Later,

What's the Best Way to Give Guitar Lessons?

What’s this week’s question? Let’s dive straight in…

Question: I’ve been playing guitar for quite a few years now. People have started asking me if I would give them lessons, so I decided I should so I can get some community service hours in for our schools Key Club.
I kind of want to make the lessons fun and interesting ((even on the first day where you have to learn all the parts of the guitar and how to hold it, etc.))
So how can I make guitar lessons fun?
Also, where do I start?
And if you are a guitar teacher or if you’ve gotten lessons before, what are your experiences?
Thanks!
Answer: Anyone wanting to learn guitar wants to get palying songs as soon as possible. So for the SECOND part of your first lesson:

Find a handful of popular songs that all use the same 2 or 3 chords. Teach those chords, then tell the student that they can now play a song. List the songs until they find one they know, then guide them a little bit to get them playing the chords in the right order with an easy strumming pattern. I think for a first lesson, that can probablly take up 10 to 30 minutes depending on the student.

Make sure you use some big, bold, clear diagrams, maybe 1 chord box per A5 piece of paper.

Before you get them to play the guitar though, you can just take them through the parts of a guitar for 2 or 3 minutes, breaking it down to the headstock, neck and body. Then break each of those 3 down further; tuning pegs, main part of the neck, fretboard, frets, inlays (and how to use the inlays along the edge of the neck, basically what frets the dots correspond to), then the parts of the body. Maybe explain the differences betwen an electric and acoustic.

When you’ve named parts of the guitar, explain that you can play different open strings (then strum and name the strings in order, E A D G B E = Eddy Ate Dynamite, Good Bye Eddy). Then explain that rather than just going from string to string, you can go from fret to fret (then play along the E string upto the 12th fret, then back down again). I believe that one thing us guitarists take massively for granted is that most people probablly have no clue how ’strings’ have anything to do with an instrument; it would seem odd to us, but if you’ve never looked at a guitar up front and personal, I imagine it would need a bit of explaining. So basicallly talk them through how you actually get different notes out of a guitar.

Now, before you get them playing a chord, maybe explain what a chord is; 2 or more notes played at the same time to create ‘harmony’. While your at it, explain that a melody is notes played one after another. I don’t know how in depth you’ll want to go on a first lesson, but I personally would explain that a scale is a group of notes that ‘work well together’, and the mother of all scales is the C Major scale. I would then say that the C Major scale has 7 notes, C, D, E, F, G, A, B. Then I would teach them the relationship between the C Major Scale and the C Major Chord (the 1st, 3rd and 5th notes of the C Major scale. Then I would teach them the C Major scale on their guitar.

Then I would tell them that there are different types of chords; Major (happy), minor (sad). And that there is a rule you can apply to the Major scale;

C D E F G A B
Major, minor, minor, Major, Major, minor, diminished.

Take the notes of the Major scale, make the first note a Major chord, the 2nd note a minor chord, 3rd note a minor and so on, as above.

I would tell them that this rule gives you a group of chords that work well together. I might then teach them the Dm and G, then find a song that contains those chords.

Then go on to teach them a song as I explained at the beginning.

Hope this helps.

I’ve taught a few people to play and I did a teaching and learning module on my English degree. I also teach children to sail. You have to assume you are an absolute master, so the things you might think are truly basic is all new and really hard to your student. The hardest thing about teaching guitar is that you will be going over things that you find really basic, and that can get boring, but if you enjoy sharing your knowledge, that doesn’t matter.

Good luck.

Edit: It’s also important to re-cap things regularly. Maybe test them on parts of a guitar at the end of the lesson (just the easy parts, that’s quite a full on first lesson lol).

My Private Lessons Guitar Teacher Said He Has About 20 Students, is That a Lot and Good?

Another guitar lessons question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:

Question: My Private Lessons Guitar Teacher Said He Has About 20 Students, is That a Lot and Good?
Answer: It means he has a lot of experience in teaching his students. It means, however, you will have to be focused in what you want to extract from his teaching abilities. His large amount of students means he won’t be able to always remember you strengths and weaknesses (unless he’s got a great memory) so being able to ask him these things, work on them, and remind him will be a good thing.

20 students is a lot unless he teaches full time.